I came out, and almost immediately was pulled into a world where I was inundated with the knowledge that people wanted me for my body. My early forays into the world of “the apps” was rife with unsolicited dick pics and the subliminal idea that I was only as good as the pleasure others could derive from my body. Grindr was a place where I could look for easy quick connections that left me momentarily satiated without the need to really look beyond into the mess of emotions that I was feeling about my sexuality.